Did you know approximately 70% of parents monitor their kids' online activity on social media platforms? This is according to a study by Digital Future Project that monitors internet behavior. In another study, statistics show that giving children access to the internet doesn't mean an improvement in academic studies. However, despite efforts by parents to monitor children's behavior online, there is still some risk of vulnerability. Technology keeps changing, and children adapt very quickly. But both benefits and risks of controlling internet usage by children depend on parenting style. Simply put, parents should control what children consume online but avoid going too overboard. Let's take a look at the reasons below.
Viruses and Trojans Many people find it hard to differentiate between these two online malpractices. A computer virus is something that harms your hard drive by multiplying itself very fast. Almost all viruses are linked to a particular set of files, meaning when you run it, it harms your computer system files. A Trojan is malicious software meant to cause harm to your saved documents, personal information and other saved data. That's why it's essential to monitor your children's actions online. They may download a file that allows access to confidential information without their consent. To learn more about Viruses and Trojans, click here.
Cyberbullying was present even before the emergence of the internet. Although traditional bullying happens in schools and homes, cyberbullying can happen anywhere at any time. And the problem is it's challenging to identify the tormentors because they hide their identities. Cyberbullying has long-term effects on children because it causes mental harm and lowers their confidence levels. Imagine your child being tormented by over 1000 users online. That would surely lead to depression or even suicide, especially if the child is in their teenage years.
Online scammers The internet is full of predators looking for information from vulnerable children. Online scammers initially pretend to have good intentions, but once you share confidential information, they block you. Children are susceptible to online scams, so you should monitor their online activity continually. The Federal Bureau of Investigations estimates over 500,000 online scammers daily, with 50% of victims between the ages of 12-15. Here are some of the methods you can use to protect your children from scammers: Monitor the nature of websites, online games, and chatrooms your children use Have one-on-one sessions with your children explaining to them how predators use pseudo profiles to target them Limit their internet time and advice them to report any suspicious activities online
Negative influence The internet influences how children behave in school and at home. The presence of social media platforms exposes children to negative behavior. For example, a teen joins a gang through online platforms like Instagram.
Gang members use the internet to post violent videos, sell illicit drugs, and threaten rival gangs. These gangs use the internet to recruit new members. So, you must be careful your children don't get recruited into such violent groups.
Protection from the Dark web The dark web is the internet section that involves sex, drugs, and pornography. Here, teenagers are the most vulnerable and can find themselves in trouble. Online predators constantly look for pictures of young women to post on their sex websites. You should therefore protect your child from online scammers that may expose your children to sex at an early age. For example, a predator can send a link to a teenager, urging them to send their nudes in return for cash. According to a study by Phew Research, 80% of parents with children aged 11 years and below watch disturbing videos on YouTube.
So, what are the cons of monitoring internet usage by children? Invading their Privacy Although monitoring your children's online activity is good, you must be careful they don't find out. If they do, they might get upset for invading their privacy. And don't expect them to share their passwords on social media accounts like Facebook or Instagram. Let them be independent and free to control their online presence. Yes, they will make mistakes, but they will eventually learn from them. Spying will only worsen the situation.
Difficulty in stopping scammers Your computer runs on commands, meaning if you don't spot a scammer, nothing will stop them from wreaking havoc on your children's computer. Besides, scammers are constantly inventing new ways to con their victims. The best way to stop predators from attacking your children is to educate on the dangers of the internet. Teach them how to do their due diligence online even without your presence.
Verdict Monitoring your children's internet usage depends on your leadership style and how you relate with them. If you're constantly spying on your children's actions online, they may develop rebellious behavior. The most important thing here is to remain neutral but protect them too. It all comes down to striking a balance.
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